Wednesday, December 16, 2009

For the Holidays

Behold

How do you explain the love you feel on your child’s first Christmas to an infertile couple?
How do you share the way you look at a picture of 3 generations in front of the tree to an orphan?
How do you demonstrate an immeasurable emotion?
You balance their lack with your abundance.
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At this time, the holes seem more hollow.
The depths of the fissures are unfathomable.
As some of us celebrate existence and memories,
The rest of us brace ourselves for the impending emptiness.
Remember that as much as you feel, someone else doesn’t.
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A smile, hug or even a text, they can fill voids.
Your touch, voice and comfort can come in simple ways.
Instead of trying to take the only thing they can feel,
Sit and acknowledge that emotions other than yours exist.
See your life minus your wealth and help them carry their burden.
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I don’t suggest we give rise to multiple pity parties.
I’m imploring that everyone recognize another’s pain.
Taking a few moments to join someone in their personal plane,
Will invite them into yours effortlessly.
By requesting admission to their world, you create a bridge to yours.
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So this season,
A shoulder to cry on,
A hug to show support,
A song to warm a heart,
Share out of your abundance of love.
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I’m not big on holiday spirit, so that’s as close as it gets. Peace, contentment and maybe even a little joy for everyone this season =D
Copyright © 2009 Natasha Guy

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